Background Story:
Several young teens playing Minecraft

He blew up my world! jackal puppet

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Emotional Scale Quick Reference
Positive 1. Joy 2. Passion 3. Enthusiasm
4. Belief 5. Optimism 6. Hopefulness 7. Contentment
8. Boredom 9. Pessimism 10. Frustration 11. Overwhelment
12. Disappointment 13. Doubt 14. Worry 15. Blame
16. Discouragement 17. Anger 18. Revenge 19. Hatred
20. Jealousy 21. Guilt 22. Depression Negative

Before After Statement Explanation
15 17 Did you do anything to him? This is not empathy for the speaker. More trying to get the speaker to empathize with the other person before the speaker has had sufficient empathy.
15 19 You can just rebuild it anyway This is going to strategy before empathy, usually more stimulating.
15 11 Are you upset? This is empathizing with an emotional guess. Demonstrates concern for their emotional state and is usually soothing.
15 9 Do you want respect? Empathy for the need is usually the most soothing. Typically works better if emotion is included.
15 20 Why don‘t you ask him to rebuild it he could do it better. Advice and insult combined, way to go! Hopefully the speaker is not prone to violence.
15 21 It wasn’t very good world anyway, you can rebuild it. Insult then advice; can it get any worse?

Additional comments:
This is just a test to see what it looks like.

Author Emotion Relationship Topic
Jeff Guilt Friends Death of pet
Vincent Blame Friends teen boys Video Game
Jeff Anger Co-worker friend Work Conflict
Jeff Blame Spouse/Roommate Dirty Dishes
Vincent/Jeff Frustration Friends Bad Throw
Vincent Blame Friends Merry Go Round
Jeff Tretsven Contentment Empathy Buddies Empathy Pause
Jeff Tretsven Blame Coworkers Heated Meeting
Jeff Tretsven Discouraged Friend/Family Self Criticism
Jeff Tretsven Worry Heir Apparent? Inheritance
Jeff Tretsven Discouraged NVC Peer Hearing No!
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